We live in a broken world… full of broken promises, dreams, lives.
Nothing seems “altogether” anymore. In the midst of such shatteredness,
however, God invites us to experience wholeness. Wholeness in our own
life, and wholeness in our relationships.
As a result, growth as whole persons is anything but optional.
Though Jesus was the perfect Son of God, as a young man He experienced
apparent personal growth. This process, while still the God-Man, enabled
Jesus Christ to relate to others so effectively (Hebrews 4:14-16).
We see this most concisely in the Bible’s description of Jesus as a
teenager: “And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God
and men” (Luke 2:52).
It is vital that we do the same.
PSYCHOLOGICALLY (“in wisdom”)
We need proper exercise volitionally. How? Choices. Choices. Choices. We
exercise our will hundreds of times a day. Some psychologists say that
our generation faces the problem of “choice overload.” We are faced with
too many choices. Not only must we decide preferences between options,
but we also must make moral judgments between options, especially in
so-called gray areas.
We need proper rest emotionally. How? A refreshing night’s sleep. Time
with friends. Reading a good book. Listening to uplifting music. Quality
quiet time with the Lord. Slow down (if we’ve been pushing too hard).
Do more (if we’ve been too lax). Instead of riding a roller coaster
every which direction, seek to balance life’s demands. Make specific
plans for your next vacation, even if it’s simply a quick getaway.
We need proper nourishment intellectually. How? Actually, Scripture has a
lot to say! Awaken your mind (Romans 12:1-2). Balance your mind (1 John
4:1-6). Have a discerning mind (Hebrews 5:14). Have an enlightened mind
(1 Corinthians 2:12). Protect your mind (Philippians 4:8). Occupy your
mind (Ephesians 4:13).
PHYSICALLY (“and stature”)
We need proper exercise physically. How? Walk. Jog. Run. Golf. Play
ball. Ride your bike or stationary bike. Work out with weights. Exercise
regularly…and enjoy feeling better.
We need proper rest physically. How? Don’t push yourself too hard all
the time. Get enough sleep. Take a nap if you need one (even
professional athletes do this when necessary). Be consistent in your
sleeping patterns; inconsistency makes you even more tired (think “jet
lag”).
We need proper nourishment physically. How? Eat well. “Man does not live
by bread alone.” Eat plenty of vegetables and fruits, whole grains and
proteins. Junk food is okay — but only once in a while, not as a steady
diet. Mostly, make healthy choices. Don’t forget…you are what you eat!
SPIRITUALLY (“with God”)
We need proper exercise spiritually. How? Get down on your knees and
really pray to the Lord. Deliberately depend on God to meet your needs.
Come alongside a friend who’s struggling in his or her faith. Invest in
the lives of others in the name of Jesus Christ. Share the love of God
with someone who isn’t a Christian yet.
We need proper rest spiritually. How? If a particular spiritual
discipline feels “dry” take a short break from it. In its place select
two or three “rest” verses to memorize and claim as your own. Favorites
include“Rest in the LORD and wait patiently for Him” (Psalm 37:7a), “My
soul finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from him” (Psalm 62:1),
and “He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the
shadow of the Almighty” (Psalm 91:1).
We need proper nourishment spiritually. How? Read God’s Word
wholeheartedly, asking the Lord to speak to you. Read spiritual
classics, too. Invite a wise and gracious older believer to mentor you.
Fellowship regularly with a small group of believers who truly love God
and love each other. Attend services at a vibrant local church every
weekend.
SOCIALLY (“and man”)
We need proper exercise socially. How? Meet new people. Make new
friends. Share a meal with someone different. Cultivate existing
relationships. Encourage close friends. Offer practical assistance. Be a
listening ear. Keep in touch with family. Reach out to someone who is
lonely. Do random acts of kindness. Plan a trip with several good
friends. Pray for others by name.
We need proper rest socially. How? Learn to take breaks. Set aside time
just for you. Jettison any compulsive need to be with others all the
time. Learn to appreciate time to be by yourself. Write in your journal.
Listen to a favorite mix of music. Learn how to enjoy meditating on
God’s Word. Take extended time to worship and pray privately. Enjoy the
great outdoors for an hour.
We need proper nourishment socially. How? Don’t see all your friends the
same. Discern who your good friends are. Identity your closest friends.
Cultivate deep friendships. Invite trusted friends to speak into our
lives with truth and grace. In turn, actively encourage your best friend
to become the man God wants him to be.
[written by David Sanford]
